Finding True Love

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Amongst the most discussed, most dreamt, most cliched & probably the most curiosity arousing topics is Finding True Love , and with this come a countless number of questions which are million dollars worth. This blog will shed light on some aspects of this topic.

Introduction

Finding true love is partly a perception & partly a reality. Where some people are really happy with what they get from life while some want to carve it out for themselves. It matters alot that how we individually choose to look at things, situations, people & our life. So in this respect finding true love can be a completely unique concept for each one of us. I am just putting forth my perspective.

The Right One

When we talk about true love, we talk about the right one. The picture perfect partner that we all wish to have in our lives who would just read our every thought & we never have to say anything. And then the reality strikes us which is exactly the opposite. We find people so contrasting to our ideas & beliefs that it sometimes feels surreal or even illusional to face. But that is life. Its not what we expect but its what we accept .

I know we all have the picture of the right one in our minds but for me personally I tend to take it as it comes, now as strange as it may seem but I think its a good approach. I don't want any preconcieved notions, set ideas, criterions, & checklist of thousand things to look for in my beau to be. I would rather prefer just meeting the person 101 same as I meet many everyday & figure out whether it works or not. If it does then I have found one , if not then I will find one.

The right one is not about finding its more about deciding. Its important that we take a clear look at the situation, face the reality, be wise & practical to decide whether the person in front of us is the right one or not. 

The Belief

Love is all about belief, you keep believing & you can keep loving. The faith & trust in the power, capability & beauty of love makes a person able to spread ,give & share love with people around him/ her. 

I strongly & passionately believe in love, the energy it has, the vibe , the strength it gives us to choose kindness over cruelty, compassion over bitterness, warmth over ruthlessness, politeness over rudeness & much more. If we all keep this belief alive inside us not only we will be able to love more but also make the world a better place.

Its equally important to have belief in yourself, infact thats what matters the most & makes all the difference. The unshakable promise which you make to yourself that you will not let betrayals, rejections, bitterness, jealousies & other negativities overpower your ability to share, spread & enjoy love ,makes you a special person. Remember with all these good spirits never loose the strength to take a stand for yourself too when the time calls you to do so. Thats the essence of self belief.

Loving yourself 

You can love others only when you love yourself. I cannot stress enough on the importance of loving yourself. This is something that comes from within, & its very crucial for keeping the essence of all your relationships & life intact. 

Loving yourself means giving yourself some time to focus on what really gives you joy , makes you happy, pursuing your hobbies, spending quality time in doing what you love the most. This gets hampered mainly when we are into romantic relationships , we skip out on all the things in order to give attention to our partner but after a certain time we realise that we have lost ourselves in the process of finding someone we love & things start to fall apart. Never let that happen neither to you nor to your partner. 

Never ever sacrifice / compromise on things that make your life worth living nor ask anyone to do so, if someone asks you don't hesitate to walk back & refuse.

Never Let Go

Three words that signify many things to many people , here is what they signify to me.

Never Let Go:-

• The hope, optimism, drive to live & love your life

• The belief in yourself , love & life.

• The people who were, are & will be there for you no matter what happens.

• The chances life gifts you every moment to prove that its worth living.

• The pursuits, interests, hobbies , people with whom or due to whom your life becomes a bliss.

• The passion for working hard & achieving all your ambitions.

• The spirit to give, share & spread love , warmth, kindness, positivity & generosity around you.

• And most importantly that one person who loves you just for who you are & you love them for who they are.

Thats all what life means to me. It means living it !! This is only way I know to find true love.

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