Happily Single !
We all go through relationships, they are indeed the best part of our lives irrespective of they work or not as good ones give us a future & bad ones a chance to start again, it is until arrival of this chance we go through a phase of being "single" . This blog will explore how we can be " Happily single".
Introduction
Being single sometimes makes us desperate anxious or even very nervous & concerned about whether we will ever find the right one, it is absolutely normal to feel this way as people around us are getting into relationships, engaged, married & even having kids! Our life is the only one which feels stagnant & non happening.
But it is this time that we get & we should focus more on making desirable changes in us, rectify our mistakes which we did in past relationships, be wiser, grow more & have a fresh perspective all over again. This will take alot of efforts & has no shortcuts which makes it the best part because you channelise all your energy into it & have no time to worry & whine about your singlehood. In short you have no time to get depressed so you automatically stay productive & happy.
By Choice , By Chance
You are single then its either of two causes that is by choice, or by chance. I believe it is a better place when its by choice. Because you don't have regrets, bitterness, rage inside you. Moving on is rather comfortable & you choose it for your own betterment. Even though all of this is true the pain from a heartbreak is universal & no one is spared of it.
Now speaking of being single by chance means either the relationship ends due to betrayal, non solvent differences, sometimes even ditching a partner, or the worst being opposition from families or returning of ex partner etc. This is more painful because you have an added pain of any one of above reasons alongwith a pain of heartbreak. I would say betrayal is a nightmare. Being single due to such circumstances takes a longer time to get back into optimism & positivity , sometimes it seems impossible too but never compromise on efforts.
Here are few things that can be done when you are single :-
• Enjoy your time back again, now there is no one demanding a share of it.
• Make use of this time for self care & pampering your mind & body.
• Pursue your hobbies more devotedly , you can even start to have new ones.
• Pay attention on what mistakes you made in prior relationship /s & focus on their rectification so you never repeat them in future ones.
• Learn more about new people you meet , infact please socialise more. Don't stay alone thats the biggest mistake you will ever make.
• Catch up with family, friends, & people on whom you have missed out.
• If you feel stressed, anxious or miss your partner & relationship talk it out to a person with whom you share a comfort zone.
• Give your thoughts a way out the more they stay in the more you suffocate.
By chance
• Accept the reality , take a decision to move on.
• Gather yourself up & don't hesitate at all to seek help for it.
• Don't ever underestimate yourself, if your partner betrayed you its their loss not yours.
• Please analyse carefully & think thousand times in case your partner asks for a second chance. ( I personally won't give one 99 /100 times)
• Don't let your self esteem, confidence, belief in yourself pay a cost for the loss of relationship. Someone is going to love you again for what you are , so choose to rise.
• If external factors are responsible for your separation then try to walk out of courtship with as much dignity as you can. If you can be best friends never say NO to it. Cherish your friendship.
Self Love , Self Care
Being single means alot of time & also all the time is yours only , no one else to claim on it. So why waste it wondering about the future instead make the present beautiful !
Self care
• Read, write, watch something that motivates you from within.
• Devote your time to learn new interests, hobbies & pursue them
• Go on adventures where you have never been before.
• Get together with friends & family more often.
• Don't say NO to dates in case there are any.
• Meet new people & socialise.
• Take good care of your diet, sleep & mental health.
• Eat healthy, stay fit by mind & body.
Self Love
• Continue to love yourself, only then you can love others.
• If you have made a mistake of losing yourself to find your partner , now you have yourself back again . Remember next time never let go of it.
• Go shopping buy all you can from your wishlist.
• If you enjoy cooking, cook a hearty meal for yourself or family. Learn new recipes.
• Surround yourself with some single friends you have, not to share sob stories but to have a fun time.
• Stay happy , stay positive & optimistic
• The last thought on your mind should be when will you find the right one. Because right now you are right for yourself , make the best out of it.
• Focus on your career, growth & academic life (in case you are a student.)
Single not lonely
Many times being single for a longer period can make a person feel lonely. But its important to know & understand the difference between loneliness & singlehood.
We all tend to make relationships our life & forget the most crucial fact that they are just a chapter in a book & not the book itself.
Your life has many aspects to it , one of them is relationship treat it just like that when you make it larger & percieve it as your life you arrest your own growth as human being, your progress as a professional , your social contact with people around you who deserve equal priority. Yes, your partner is utmost important but that shouldn't hamper your contact with people around you & mainly with yourself.
You don't at all need to feel lonely if you are single. There are so many things to look out for, so many interests to pursue, so much to learn , so much to grow. Why waste our time getting depressed & worried about things which are not even in our hands ?
Be optimistic , positive & never loose hope in life & faith in love.
This blog comes from a very personal part of me which has seen how it feels to be single but I always look, have looked & will look at it as the greatest strength than as a weakness by being lonely.
It takes more courage to stand alone than walk with bunch of people.
So I wish everyone meets their true love & be happy always.!
I hope you enjoyed reading this blog . Thank you so much.
If you haven't checked my previous blogs , check them below.
Drop a comment, click on the reaction of your choice.
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Introduction
Being single sometimes makes us desperate anxious or even very nervous & concerned about whether we will ever find the right one, it is absolutely normal to feel this way as people around us are getting into relationships, engaged, married & even having kids! Our life is the only one which feels stagnant & non happening.
But it is this time that we get & we should focus more on making desirable changes in us, rectify our mistakes which we did in past relationships, be wiser, grow more & have a fresh perspective all over again. This will take alot of efforts & has no shortcuts which makes it the best part because you channelise all your energy into it & have no time to worry & whine about your singlehood. In short you have no time to get depressed so you automatically stay productive & happy.
By Choice , By Chance
You are single then its either of two causes that is by choice, or by chance. I believe it is a better place when its by choice. Because you don't have regrets, bitterness, rage inside you. Moving on is rather comfortable & you choose it for your own betterment. Even though all of this is true the pain from a heartbreak is universal & no one is spared of it.
Now speaking of being single by chance means either the relationship ends due to betrayal, non solvent differences, sometimes even ditching a partner, or the worst being opposition from families or returning of ex partner etc. This is more painful because you have an added pain of any one of above reasons alongwith a pain of heartbreak. I would say betrayal is a nightmare. Being single due to such circumstances takes a longer time to get back into optimism & positivity , sometimes it seems impossible too but never compromise on efforts.
Here are few things that can be done when you are single :-
By choice
• Enjoy your time back again, now there is no one demanding a share of it.
• Make use of this time for self care & pampering your mind & body.
• Pursue your hobbies more devotedly , you can even start to have new ones.
• Pay attention on what mistakes you made in prior relationship /s & focus on their rectification so you never repeat them in future ones.
• Learn more about new people you meet , infact please socialise more. Don't stay alone thats the biggest mistake you will ever make.
• Catch up with family, friends, & people on whom you have missed out.
• If you feel stressed, anxious or miss your partner & relationship talk it out to a person with whom you share a comfort zone.
• Give your thoughts a way out the more they stay in the more you suffocate.
By chance
• Accept the reality , take a decision to move on.
• Gather yourself up & don't hesitate at all to seek help for it.
• Don't ever underestimate yourself, if your partner betrayed you its their loss not yours.
• Please analyse carefully & think thousand times in case your partner asks for a second chance. ( I personally won't give one 99 /100 times)
• Don't let your self esteem, confidence, belief in yourself pay a cost for the loss of relationship. Someone is going to love you again for what you are , so choose to rise.
• If external factors are responsible for your separation then try to walk out of courtship with as much dignity as you can. If you can be best friends never say NO to it. Cherish your friendship.
Self Love , Self Care
Being single means alot of time & also all the time is yours only , no one else to claim on it. So why waste it wondering about the future instead make the present beautiful !
Self care
• Read, write, watch something that motivates you from within.
• Devote your time to learn new interests, hobbies & pursue them
• Go on adventures where you have never been before.
• Get together with friends & family more often.
• Don't say NO to dates in case there are any.
• Meet new people & socialise.
• Take good care of your diet, sleep & mental health.
• Eat healthy, stay fit by mind & body.
Self Love
• Continue to love yourself, only then you can love others.
• If you have made a mistake of losing yourself to find your partner , now you have yourself back again . Remember next time never let go of it.
• Go shopping buy all you can from your wishlist.
• If you enjoy cooking, cook a hearty meal for yourself or family. Learn new recipes.
• Surround yourself with some single friends you have, not to share sob stories but to have a fun time.
• Stay happy , stay positive & optimistic
• The last thought on your mind should be when will you find the right one. Because right now you are right for yourself , make the best out of it.
• Focus on your career, growth & academic life (in case you are a student.)
Single not lonely
Many times being single for a longer period can make a person feel lonely. But its important to know & understand the difference between loneliness & singlehood.
We all tend to make relationships our life & forget the most crucial fact that they are just a chapter in a book & not the book itself.
Your life has many aspects to it , one of them is relationship treat it just like that when you make it larger & percieve it as your life you arrest your own growth as human being, your progress as a professional , your social contact with people around you who deserve equal priority. Yes, your partner is utmost important but that shouldn't hamper your contact with people around you & mainly with yourself.
You don't at all need to feel lonely if you are single. There are so many things to look out for, so many interests to pursue, so much to learn , so much to grow. Why waste our time getting depressed & worried about things which are not even in our hands ?
Be optimistic , positive & never loose hope in life & faith in love.
This blog comes from a very personal part of me which has seen how it feels to be single but I always look, have looked & will look at it as the greatest strength than as a weakness by being lonely.
It takes more courage to stand alone than walk with bunch of people.
So I wish everyone meets their true love & be happy always.!
I hope you enjoyed reading this blog . Thank you so much.
If you haven't checked my previous blogs , check them below.
Drop a comment, click on the reaction of your choice.
Share it with family & friends, & don't forget to follow My Blogs
I believe happiness is key to one's self. If one is not happy with themselves, how are they going to cherish their moment with significant other. One has to be self-content before entering into any relationship, because putting all the burden of one's happiness goes onto the shoulder of others and that's how relationship fails. Therefore, when one is single they should learn to be happy with themselves. Being happily single, it's easy to cherish the love once you get in one. As said "If one is not comfortable in their own skin, how are they going to make others comfortable". Thank you for bringing out such topics on the palette as it is very essential for viewers to understand why a relationship fails and even if fails it's alright "I got this. I love myself enough to walk away".
ReplyDeleteHey can't tell you how touched I am to have these incredible heartwarming words from you. Thank you so so much for your love & generous praise. This is a nothing less than a sheer boost to my motivation 😊❤
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